What Is Love Anyway?

All of us go through relationships with people who, we are sure, are "the one." What attracts people to each other is underlying energy signals of which we are unaware. What we don’t know we don’t know is what gets us into the state of being stuck. Have you ever noticed that some people get divorced then turn around and marry the first spouse all over again--only the second spouse has a different name and face?
People attract who they are. Many of us are looking for ourselves, for our identity. As our self-image changes and we grow in maturity we will attract different people who are at the same point at each corresponding level.

The key is to love oneself. Since we are going to attract the person we are then it makes sense to be certain we are who we want to be. Most important, we need to be sure we love ourselves. It is not possible to love another without true self-love.
We need guidance to ask the questions that guide us to uncovering our True Self. Self-image runs lives. Self-images are usually inaccurate. Self-discovery is the path to freedom and really honest unconditional love.
If there are conditions in the relationship then no matter how that person acts or fails to act is accepted. One single behavior, not necessarily liked or condoned, is accepted rather than judged when love is present. In a relationship where a behavior or action shuts down the love feelings--well, there was no unconditional love in the first place. Love is always unconditional. Anything else is just emotions, feelings, not love at all. Armed with that knowledge we will be spared the pain of broken romances.